I really don't know what to call this message, but....

Vladire · Post by **Vladire** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 6:20 pm

fair enough fair enough..i just dont want anyone to insinuate that i used SR..cause thats far from the case.

Borz of Brell · Post by **Borz of Brell** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 6:59 pm

/hugs Tondy

-Borz

Amalia Kuso · Post by **Amalia Kuso** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 7:27 pm

as a reply to Harlowe's post, I had no communication to SR after most have me on ignore without even giving me a chance to reply or explain, thats why I came here to get flamed...kinda my punishment... Vladire IS right...I dont have alot of time to raid...

Someone mentioned white lie...ya...thats kinda how I saw it too. Like telling your kids to behave, Santa Claus is watching them or daddy is just gone on vacation, they will get to see them one weekend a month till he comes back.

Harlowe · Post by **Harlowe** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 7:53 pm

I really don't see why it would have been so painful to tell the truth, especially to those that were on very friendly terms with you. It's not a big deal and you wouldn't have made people that considered you a friend feel used.

It doesn't seem to bother you in the least how you've made those friends feel.

Oh and anyone that would do this ...

daddy is just gone on vacation, they will get to see them one weekend a month till he comes back

is fucking sick.

Chants Evensong · Post by **Chants Evensong** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 8:49 pm

I really don't see why it would have been so painful to tell the truth

Fear of rejection? Lack of communication? Rationalization emerging from a difficult decision?

Who knows? My previous post about people's heads being deprived of oxygen was out of place. It looks like a lot of wires got crossed here, and a fairly decent dialogue is developing.

(Personal opinion: Open up the recruit section to Am and discuss it there. Doing it here just looks like people airing dirty laundry).

bigphatliar · Post by **bigphatliar** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 8:49 pm

ZanypherCocoapuffs wrote:YUSS! Airing guild dirty laundry on the rants board! This is what its all about baby!

BTW BPL, where the fuck can you get a decent bag of popcorn and a large coke at a movie theatre for only 8 bucks? =)

Well ok make that $12.00

bigphatliar · Post by **bigphatliar** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 8:56 pm

Lunarstorm wrote:Saphdia, the queen of kicking people while they're down,

THey keep trying to talk as if they're on an even keel with Watchers, SR, and Enshadowed...and they keep failing miserably.

Just because you're raiding the same zones they defeated 2 years ago doesn't mean you are their equals. Now shut the fuck up Cracker.

Aaethan · Post by **Aaethan** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:05 pm

3 things to add.

1) Vlad you have lots of room to talk about lying.

2) Vlad I dont see a tag on your name so quit referring as though you do have one.

3) Vlad what guild are you going to hop on the bus of next and ride it for all its worth, counting 3 in the last 2 months.

Harlowe · Post by **Harlowe** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:06 pm

You make good points Chants, with the exception that if fear of rejection were an issue, airing it here would have been the last thing they'd do.

Saying things like "expecting to kiss ass" isn't trying to clear the air very constructively either. Whether it was truly how they felt or not. They were better off moving on then bringing it here to the side-show.

Aaethan · Post by **Aaethan** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:09 pm

bah rude no edit, Vlad I believe Watchers is looking for more its the only guild you havent tried in the last 2 months. Or is someone else going to take over you so they can app for Watchers?

Chants Evensong · Post by **Chants Evensong** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:23 pm

Good point Harlowe. It seems the filter worked then.

Arkaron · Post by **Arkaron** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:24 pm

People hop the higher end guild apps a lot. Not sure what the issue is here, except for, as Chants put it, a 'little white lie'.

Want to know what a guild is like? Raid with them. Oh wait, you have to be a recruit to raid, so...not too astounding that people having 'fitting sessions' withdraw apps once in a while.

Though, honestly. Might have done a bit of good to look at the recruitment page. If I didn't have a lot of time to raid, I wouldn't app to a known raiding guild.

Oh, and thanks for posting Tondy

. Not only does she have a point, but someone told me I went to the Tondy School of Typing recently in a channel, and everyone laughed.

I just realized I read all of what she said without reading any errors the first time.

Dyslexia anyone?

Vladire · Post by **Vladire** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:25 pm

Aaethan, don't talk shit about stuff you know nothing about. thanks.

Aaethan · Post by **Aaethan** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:32 pm

Things I know nothing about? Hmm lets see

1) So you didnt lie then?

You sure did

2) So you have a guild then?

No

3) So you havent been an app or guilded in 3 of the 4 top guild on the server in the last 2 months, want me to count them for you?

True again, 3 of em yep, All of which you gave simular BS stories too. Make up your damn mind. Or at least be honest.

Harlowe · Post by **Harlowe** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:35 pm

I don't really see the point in taking cheap-shots at Vladire. When a person is shopping for a guild or what is their in-game "home", they are going to want to be sure it's the place for them.

Who's business is it if the woman is in 10 guilds in 2 months? She's never been ranted for heinous, unethical behavior so who the hell cares.

Vladire · Post by **Vladire** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:36 pm

what are you so sore about aaethan...really

Vladire · Post by **Vladire** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:39 pm

He thinks i used Alarius to get flags/loot when in actuality...i busted my ass to help alarius..any loot i got i earned...dkp..cant go wrong there...as for flags...sure aaethan i used to for flags so i can sit in zones no one goes to and LFG for hours....give me a fucking break

Harlowe · Post by **Harlowe** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:45 pm

This is feeling like the jilted boyfriend/girlfriend thread. Too bad you can't just give back his favorite t-shirt and move on.

Jasi · Post by **Jasi** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 9:46 pm

I had no communication to SR after most have me on ignore without even giving me a chance to reply or explain, thats why I came here to get flamed

Yet again a half truth. Amalia has made no effort to contact me whatsoever. He is not on ignore and he also has my e-mail address.

Bronnk · Post by **Bronnk** » Thu Aug 21, 2003 10:21 pm

I must say that alot of these people need to grow up, take a sip from the cup of Real Life and sit a minute to focus.

Ummm Amaila, once you remove your head let me know...

Sorry SR, tough shit.

Well Xalmat...

Have a nice day.