I really don't know what to call this message, but....
I myself was recently an applicant for SR. My application was terminated for "lack of support".
I feel that this was most likely an error on my part by not reaching out enough or not reaching out properly to SR members.
I did however make a few new friends while in the application process and will most likely apply again in the future.
Of course I didnt like everything that went on during the process and it was hard to get to know people under the circumstances of heavy reflagging but you need to have a thicker skin than some people who have posted seem to have.
I dont blame SR for feeling a level of betrayal with this Amalia thing. Even in a game it is a shitty thing to lie to someone under any circumstances. Quite frankly it boggles my mind.
Directly before I apped to SR I raided many times with Alarius. I had to stop raiding with them as frequently due to time zone differences and I informed them of that. In my post I also let them know that I may apply to another guild. It is best to be up front and let people know what is going on with you so that there are no misconceptions and hard feelings.
As an example of this I can say with pride that I am still welcome on Alarius raids when my schedule permits it and I maintain many friendships with them. It would seem to me Amalia that you threw away friendships and opportunity by your callous disregard for the truth. What a shame.
P.S. /lick Hadrian
I feel that this was most likely an error on my part by not reaching out enough or not reaching out properly to SR members.
I did however make a few new friends while in the application process and will most likely apply again in the future.
Of course I didnt like everything that went on during the process and it was hard to get to know people under the circumstances of heavy reflagging but you need to have a thicker skin than some people who have posted seem to have.
I dont blame SR for feeling a level of betrayal with this Amalia thing. Even in a game it is a shitty thing to lie to someone under any circumstances. Quite frankly it boggles my mind.
Directly before I apped to SR I raided many times with Alarius. I had to stop raiding with them as frequently due to time zone differences and I informed them of that. In my post I also let them know that I may apply to another guild. It is best to be up front and let people know what is going on with you so that there are no misconceptions and hard feelings.
As an example of this I can say with pride that I am still welcome on Alarius raids when my schedule permits it and I maintain many friendships with them. It would seem to me Amalia that you threw away friendships and opportunity by your callous disregard for the truth. What a shame.
P.S. /lick Hadrian
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This is a place where I should watch my words closely...I always feel like I'm walking on glass...maybe rabid glass..when I think of posting here. But Sweet Merciful Jesus...
I'm some new Alarius member. I was also an SR app at one time, and I was granted a flag or two as well as many of my spells, through their generosity. I had the momentary lapse of deviltry to honestly express that SR's recruitment process wore heavily on me, and I felt alone in it for the most part - probably because I'm not as badass as I remember myself to be.
I can understand why someone would want to "fib" a little, when it comes to bowing out of a system that is new and daunting. I was tempted. I wouldn't condone it for myself - quite frankly lying or acting dishonorably towards a major guild is one of the worst moves you can make.
I guess the word I'm looking for is discretion - there's a time to speak, and a time to remain silent. In that equation, there isn't any room for lying.
This has gone too far because people couldn't keep their mouths shut. But I state the obvious. Let it die now, please. Everyone's where they should be now, and it's time to forget it.
*Sidenote* - I didn't know you trundled around this cesspool, Chants. You tear this place up, sir.
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I'm some new Alarius member. I was also an SR app at one time, and I was granted a flag or two as well as many of my spells, through their generosity. I had the momentary lapse of deviltry to honestly express that SR's recruitment process wore heavily on me, and I felt alone in it for the most part - probably because I'm not as badass as I remember myself to be.
I can understand why someone would want to "fib" a little, when it comes to bowing out of a system that is new and daunting. I was tempted. I wouldn't condone it for myself - quite frankly lying or acting dishonorably towards a major guild is one of the worst moves you can make.
I guess the word I'm looking for is discretion - there's a time to speak, and a time to remain silent. In that equation, there isn't any room for lying.
This has gone too far because people couldn't keep their mouths shut. But I state the obvious. Let it die now, please. Everyone's where they should be now, and it's time to forget it.
*Sidenote* - I didn't know you trundled around this cesspool, Chants. You tear this place up, sir.
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I think I've held my tongue long enough. I'm not gonna any longer. It's time to call you out for the selfish, loot whore you really are. This will prolly come to the surprise of most of the people in my own guild as well, seeing's how you did leave "on good terms". But not too many people, you said so yourself, knew the real reason you left. Did they? Guess what? I do know. Maybe I don't know the whole story. But I know enough to know that you are selfish and SUCH a loot whore that you'd let it cause you to throw away the friendship of one of the sweetest people in the game.Vladire wrote:Oh please show me where I've done something heinous. Show me as a ninja looter, or a racist asshole, or a USER, or a cheat, hell even a spammer. And I will show you a valid rant. OTHERWISE GET OFF MY FUCKING COAT TAILS YOU WHINING FUCKS.
When you left my guild, I'm not gonna lie, I was glad to see you go. I was sick of listening to you complain and whine over not being appreciated for the super cleric you wanted to make yourself out to be. I was tired of you making us out to be the cause of your severe middle child syndrome. When my friend came to me all conflicted and upset over what you did to him, I told him to not play into your self-pity. If you wanted to leave the game over the stupid “Mistake” you made, it’s nobody’s fault but your own.
Now, as for this Heinous thing that you did, that you challenged people to show you...How about accepting gear from a FRIEND for an ALT of yours and then getting caught selling that same gear on your trader in the bazaar? Is that bad enough? No. Then after getting caught being the loot whore you are, you try to channel your guilt on HIM and make HIM feel like shit cause you're gonna quit the game over it. Good riddance. He gave you that gear to help out your alt, not fill your purse. What's worse is that you'd throw away the friendship of one of the sweetest people in the game for what? 2 or 3K? The gear certainly couldn't have been worth that much, but it was enough to throw a friendship huh?
You have no morals or sense of loyalty. Tryllium called it right when she pointed out how you jump from guild to guild, each time you move on, it’s due to “RL constraints” keeping you from playing. How many times are you gonna quit the game completely just to leave a guild? I’d guess not too many, seeing’s how the server’s running out of high level guilds for you to jump to and people are becoming wise your lying bullshit ways.
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Wanna see something real scary Jaradis? See the Quote below...Jaradis Stormcaller wrote: Wow, deja vu...
Got to love the same generic good-bye to all 3 huh?Vladire wrote:I regret that I have to do this just as I was getting comfortable. Last night after POS, I got into a very sad and upsetting argument with my boyfriend. EQ has been very taxing on our relationship. Which is ironic, because he's the one that introduced me to it 2 years ago.
I'm due for a promotion at work in a few weeks, and becasue of that I've had a lot more to do at work to prepare me for that. I work longer hours and do harder work, and this combined with EQ has given us no time to be together, or to even have a relationship.
I've decided to take an extended vactation from everquest. Not sure how long I'll be gone, but I think ti's something I have to cut out for a while to make time for more important things.
As for Vladire..A friend from work is going to take her over for the time being. He has a 63 cleric on the Nameless and was thinking of transferring to Brell. I may log her on from time to time to do tradeskills and non attention consuming thing's that I can afk while doing. But most likely if you send a tell to her you probably won't be talking to me just a warning. Out of respect I am deguilding Vlad. I don't want a stranger to be able to see personal guild chat.
Regrettably, I won't be able to attend our get together with Sabiar and Nurbok this weekend either. I've decided to stay home all weekend and spend some time with my boyfriend. I apologize for the short notice.
Since I am removing Vladire from the guild, i suspect my member access to this board may also be removed. I probably wont be close to a computer this weekend so if you want to get in touch with me my email address is megan@staticisdown.org. And I will also check my private messages here on the board.
It has been a great time I've spent with you all. And the fact that you picked me to do extaordinary things with you means a lot to me. I wish you all a load of luck and I know soon you'll be raiding in the endgame
I hope none of you will be strangers
Salute,
Megan (Vladire)
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Funny she said she was DUE for a promotion at work. When she left our guild, She claimed she already got the promotion. Lies, lies, and more lies. All of these little white lies. I wonder how many different shades of white appear in her rainbow.
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Vladire is a super cleric though, we don't accept anything less for EnshadowedI was glad to see you go. I was sick of listening to you complain and whine over not being appreciated for the super cleric you wanted to make yourself out to be.

I'm proud to be guilded with Vladire; she is a team player, an awesome cleric, and a friendly person with a great sense of humor. Perhaps these qualities are why she quit the other guilds and found a home with Enshadowed...
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