BUT........ I feel like this is what Martin was fighting against. Not only making timelines match in different parts of Essos, but giving her character motivation enough to take certain steps forward. I think you are now reading the Mereneese knot, so to say, and yeah. It sucks hard. And I have to say, her chaining her dragons beneath the city was just shitty. I wanted to slap the ever-living piss out of her. "Oh, I don't know what to do. They're so wild." You are the mother of dragons. Be a mother, for fuck's sake.
I will say this, I'm hopeful by the end of ADWD on this particular thing. I do think that this book definitely proves that she's kind of a shit ruler. Maybe she's learning how to be better at it, or maybe she's learning that she isn't a ruler at all.
And on the more interesting side of things, I'll always wonder about what she saw/heard in the House of the Undying and from Quaith:
She told Dany: "To go north, you must journey south, to reach the west you must go east. To go forward you must go back and to touch the light you must pass beneath the shadow."
And....
. . . three heads has the dragon . . .
. . . three fires must you light . . . one for life and one for death and one to love . . .
. . . three mounts must you ride . . . one to bed and one to dread and one to love . . .
. . . three treasons will you know . . . once for blood and once for gold and once for love . . .
I think the three fires are:
1 for life - waking her dragons
1 for death - Drogo?
1 for love - finding another love (unknown - I do not believe it's Daario)
three mounts...
one to bed - drogo
one to dread - hubby in ADWD
one to love - (unknown/not-Daario)
three treasons...
once for blood - The witch to infected drogo (?)
once for gold - Hard to say. Could be Jorah.
once for love - I think this will be Daario. But we'll see.
And the other things she saw in the House of the Undying...
- A beautiful, naked woman being ravished by four of the dwarves who serve the house.
A feast of slaughtered corpses holding cups, spoons, and food, with a dead man with a wolf's head sitting on a throne wearing an iron crown, apparently foreshadowing the Red Wedding.
Daenerys' childhood home with the red door in Braavos.
A throne room with dragon skulls on the walls where a king resembling Aerys II Targaryen sits on a barbed throne and appears to give the order to burn the Red Keep during the Sack of King's Landing.
A room where a silver-haired man (presumably Rhaegar Targaryen) names his son Aegon, says the child is "the prince that was promised", then plays a harp.
A "splendor of wizards" who falsely claim to be the Undying of Qarth and offer to teach Daenerys the secret speech of dragonkind.
and...
Viserys' gruesome death.
A tall lord with copper-skin and silver-gold hair beneath a banner of a fiery stallion, with a burning city in the background (this may be a glimpse at what Rhaego's future would have been).
A dying prince (likely Rhaegar Targaryen) with rubies flying from his chest, mutters a woman's name with his last breath.
A blue-eyed king who casts no shadow raises a red sword in his hand. (Azor A'hai!)
A cloth dragon sways on poles amidst a cheering crowd.
A great stone beast takes wing from a smoking tower, breathing shadows.
Daenerys' silver trots through grass to a darkling stream under a sea of stars.
A corpse standing at the prow of a ship with bright eyes and grey smiling lips.
A blue flower growing from a chink in a wall of ice, filling the air with sweetness.
Prophecy overload!